Relations are most tough ones to handle. Among the most difficult is the couple relation. Staying in relation for best needs lot of caution to handle. In such cases, things get worsened in the course with addiction to substances and drugs.
It isn’t new for many people to get into divorce or end the relation abruptly. There are many causes, but domestic abuse which is with substance-induced is on the rise. There are many cases where the relationship suffers due to poor understanding and co-operation. One partner might be the reason for making another one induced by substance. We have heard lot many cases and see situations.
This causes turmoil in the relation. This needs counselling and therapy assistance. Sometimes it can be benefitted with both couples taking up the course together, but other times it is the worst idea to follow.
There was once tests conducted on the couples taking treatment together. It was seen that more than half were still living together, after 5 years of treatment better than where they started from. But the remaining half had mixed outcomes. One-quarter was separated, divorced and the other quarter were in the relation for the sake of it.
For therapies to work, couples should be strongly committed, in saving the marriage and the relation that they share. Both must be able to withhold the intention of saving the relation. Each one must contribute and do their share of work, without blaming in the coming rough patch of life.
There are many self-help books available for the couples. One can follow them in case they find it difficult to attend therapies together. Each couple life is different. Everyone have hiccups in their life, and it always advised to draw a line, to stay aside from each other. No one can share the exact path, and so you are advised to draw a plan that suits your style of living and your special needs, or our partners.